She's loving the sex...or at least you think she is. Could she be faking it? We're going to help clue you in to signs — during and after the act — that reveal if you've pleased her...or not.
She's Physically Amped
Listen to her breathing. "If she's panting, even lightly, you're turning her on," says Darcy Luadzers, PhD, author of The 10-Minute Sexual Solution: A Busy Couple's Guide to Having More Fun, Intimacy, and Sex. "It's more telling than a moan because it's an forced response."
Notice her skin too. "Her chest and neck region become flushed," Luadzers says. "Also look for her to flex her legs, curl her toes, arch her back, and move her pelvis deeply and rhythmically." If she's not feelin' it, she'll just lie there.
She's Not Making Sense
Notice her skin too. "Her chest and neck region become flushed," Luadzers says. "Also look for her to flex her legs, curl her toes, arch her back, and move her pelvis deeply and rhythmically." If she's not feelin' it, she'll just lie there.
She's Not Making Sense
"I, whoa, oh God, goooooo." While you might think an alien life force has invaded her body, her gibberish means she's really into it. "If her speech is off, it means that she's totally caught up in the sensations," says Tracey Cox, author of Superhotsex. However, if her words come out straight and clean, she's likely just counted ceiling crack number 12.
She Gets Up to Do Stuff
She Gets Up to Do Stuff
"When a woman is sexually gratified, she'll crave contact via cuddling, talking, or wanting to go for round two," says Luadzers. "When she's dissatisfied, she'll detach, which could entail rolling over or getting out of bed."
So if she bolts to make a snack, call a friend, or turn on the TV, it's not good, buddy. "Busying herself means that those things were either on her mind during the act or she wasn't satisfied and is frustrated," says Cox.
Her Praise Is Pat
So if she bolts to make a snack, call a friend, or turn on the TV, it's not good, buddy. "Busying herself means that those things were either on her mind during the act or she wasn't satisfied and is frustrated," says Cox.
Her Praise Is Pat
"Great!" sounds positive, but "her one-word summary means she wants more and isn't telling you," Cox says.
But don't get discouraged — simply break the silence with sexy humor. "Tell her that last round was just your college-boy performance, and you can do better," says Luadzers. Make good on your word by asking what would drive her insane. Says Luadzers, "A woman who wasn't turned on the first time can become very sexual when she gets encouragement from her man to ask for more."
But don't get discouraged — simply break the silence with sexy humor. "Tell her that last round was just your college-boy performance, and you can do better," says Luadzers. Make good on your word by asking what would drive her insane. Says Luadzers, "A woman who wasn't turned on the first time can become very sexual when she gets encouragement from her man to ask for more."
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